How Family and Friends Can Help

Susan Pottberg assists as Westover Hills CoC welcomes home returning missionaries Richard and Linda Benskin, Joanna, and Daniel from Ghana.

How Can Family and Close Friends Help the Returning Family?

by Beth Reese


 1.       Recognize that the missionary family has mixed feelings about being here.  As excited as they are to be with you whom they have missed dearly, they also are missing those they have left behind.

 2.       Be at the airport when they arrive.  Show your love and support.

 3.       Fix their favorite American foods they may have missed or take them out to their favorite places.

 4.       At the same time, find a balance, and try not to be overwhelming. 

 5.       After the initial welcoming home phase, for those who live in the same area, try not to expect your missionary family to always want to spend all of their free time with you.

 6.       Let your missionary family make their own decisions about how they spend holidays without a lot of pressure from you.  Invitations are great; pressure or retribution is not.

 7.       Listen to the stories your missionary wants to tell.  Encourage them to tell you about their friends in their mission country.

 8.       Be a servant for the Lord.  Offer help in getting the family involved in family, church, local events, but be willing to let them decide if they want to or not.

 9.       Help in making contacts for what interests the missionary family. (home schooling)

 10.   Be prepared for tears, emotions. Don’t take them personally.

 11.   Don’t make the missionary feel guilty for all the events they have missed while they have been away.

 12.   Be willing to have family discussions with kindness to determine what each individual needs and wants in the new relationships.

 13.   Realize that your missionary family has had to become a self-sufficient unit on the field. Quote from a recently returned missionary wife:

What has been the hardest thing about your reentry experience?

"Getting family to understand that just because they were thrilled we were home, we weren’t and we need space and time to adjust our family to living here.  They tried to push us in finding a church family when all we wanted to do was spend time as a family."

 

Do you want to attend an InterMission event? Find out if you qualify. Fill out one registration per family unit for ReEntry or InterNational InterMission events; each family member who will attend Global Reunion must register individually.

Please fill out our contact form and tell us where you work and the congregation that supports you.

News and upcoming events

RE-ENTRY INTERMISSION

 

We are looking forward to hosting a Re-Entry in Edmond , OK on Friday and Saturday, December 10-11, 2021.  It will be an intensive two days filled with discussion on subjects such as fitting into the American church and adjusting to American culture. There will be separate classes for children. 

Local Christians will provide food and housing making the event free to participants.

 

 

Our team is eager to spend two days  hearing your stories and sharing ours, and providing you with a refreshing time of learning and fellowship. We look forward to having you register for our next 2-day Re-entry weekend soon.

 

 

GLOBAL REUNION

 

Please join us as we once again have. Global Reunion. We be coming together in Edmond, OK, from in the summer of 2022. Because of our host sites schedule this may be in June next year so keep watching this site for the correct date. 

 

 

 

InterNational InterMission

 

We are in the planning stages of having an InterMission  in Ecuador during a long weekend, February25-March 1, 2022.

 

This will be open to cross-cultural missionaries in Ecuador and surrounding countries in Central and South America.